You don't have to pretend that things don't exist or are perfect to have a perfect moment.

A moment doesn't contain everything in your life.
You can be infinite in a moment :}

and as dumb and wannabe-philosophical as this sounds: a moment is

what you are in one moment is whatever you are in one moment
what you are the majority of the time does not matta

capice?
maybe when I can form the right words, I'll reshare this with you